Seeds of solace

The question is not if we will know grief, but when.

And when it arrives on our doorstep - as it inevitably will -, whether we will be able to open our door and arms to it and greet it like an old friend.

Losing our parents is life changing at any age; and it can be earth shattering when it happens sooner than we’ve learned to ‘expect’ it from life. Sooner than the natural order of things would indicate is ‘right’. In our 20s and 30s, we are definitely no longer children but we are definitely still our parents’ child. Too old to be considered orphans by most, yet too young to consider the loss of both parents ‘a natural part of life’, it can leave you feeling isolated in your experience. Like belonging to a unique subgroup that fits neither here nor there. It can be confusing, disheartening, and extremely lonely.

Our parents were where our roots began to grow. There, in their arms, we knew we belonged. With them, there was a special place carved out for us, a place that fit us perfectly no matter how big we got. With them, we would always be a child, first. There would always be a place for us. With them, we would always be home. As our elders, we looked to them for advice, for refuge, for the wisdom that comes with age. We looked to them to celebrate the glorious moments of life and to find comfort during the hard times. The need and desire to have them within an arm’s reach doesn’t just stop when they die. We still look for that place they always held for us, and that we implicitly believe they always will. When we suddenly find that it is no longer there, we feel lost, disorientated, uprooted and confused.

  • Sharing your story: A place for you and your story to be fully seen and heard by a compassionate ear

  • Building a relationship with grief: an exploration, expansion and transformation of your relationship with grief

  • Creating a safe place to land: resources & practices to support you through the inevitable storms

  • Mapping the land: exploring all that has been affected by your loss and how your internal and external landscape has shifted

  • Journeying within: welcoming and moving with the myriad of emotions that come with grief (guilt, anger, sadness, overwhelm, helplessness, …)

  • Letting the light in: creating space for joy, light and happiness

  • Love beyond the veil: integrating the one you lost into your life in new ways by forming a continuing bond, your way

  • Planting the seeds of loss: letting your grief transform you and nurture your soul

What can you expect?

The offer

  • 8 online sessions of 1 hour each (live or digital)

  • The Wayfinders Workbook with journal prompts, practices and resources for at home (normally €22)

  • 8% discount on a future workshop, ritual or breathwork journey of your choosing

  • €555 (pay in full after your free exploration call)

FAQ

  • Anyone who knows or has known grief (so: everyone). Anyone wanting surrender to grief. Wanting to transform their relationship with grief. Anyone wanting to welcome their grief with open arms and let it move them.

  • No. Whilst this offer will support you on your grief journey, it is not a substitute for professioal therapy or counselling. If you are unsure whether this offer is right for you at this time, feel free to fill out the form for an exploration call and we can find out if Wayfinders is what is most supportive for you right now.

  • All grief is normal. For most of us, the question isn’t if we need help, but whether we would like more support. Some will experience complicated grief - if this is the case, we will address it in the exploration call and tune into the level of support you need at this time.

  • The sessions can be in English or Dutch.

  • After booking your exploration call, we will decide on a day and time together.

Embrace your grief.
For there, your soul
will grow.

- Carl Jung